When my boyfriend proposed just 6 months after cutting my hair to my ears, I was in panic mode.
I had been a long-haired girly for my entire life! At 23 years old, this was my first time getting a haircut that short. Granted, it was cute. But I wasn’t sure I wanted to get married with my hair looking nothing like what it had my entire life. Thankfully, I had already started my natural-hair journey (no more pink or blue for me, arg) so that I could look back at my wedding photos and not regret getting those 90’s striped highlights – you know what I’m talking about. And if you don’t, go look in your mother’s photo album.
So, I had 9 months from September 2023 to June of 2024 to grow my hair as much as humanly possible. Now, am I going to tell you I turned into rapunzel and grew my length by 12 inches in 9 months? Heck no. However, with my natural/genetic hair growth being 1-2 inches a year, I was happy to double that!
I’m going to share each tip that I followed to grow my hair, the pros, cons, and in general if I felt that these implementations made a difference with my hair growth. Since I tried 6+ (these are just the ones I stuck with) there’s no way to tell if there’s one single change that grew my hair the most. This is all just going off of my, well, ~feelings~.
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6. Biotin (lowest effect)
You may be surprised to hear that of all six methods of hair growth that I tried, taking biotin pills had the smallest effect on my hair
The reason why I can confidently say that biotin had the smallest effect on my hair is because I had tried this method twice before my 2023 hair growth journey. No matter how regular I was with sticking those dang pills beneath my tongue, I never noticed a drastic increase in hair growth
Ironically, I notice my fingernails grow the most while taking biotin!
5. Cool rinse after showering
Unfortunately, I can’t remember where I heard this tip. However since looking deeper into hair studies, this is a highly argued tip
The method is this: after taking a shower, just before getting out you rinse your hair with cool or cold water. The idea is that your pores will shrink back up, especially after they’ve opened with warm water, preventing your hair from falling out as easily after showering
I had been practicing cool rinses after my showers for years, not just since getting engaged. I can say over these years, despite the controversy, I have noticed a difference in not only how much hair loss I have, but I feel my hair has strengthened as a whole
However, this is my second-lowest pick for what affected my hair-growth journey. It doesn’t hurt to try, but don’t expect infinite hair growth from this tip
4. Oil treatments
The fourth highest trick I used during my hair growth journey was regular oil treatments
There’s many articles and influencers that swear by rosemary oil for hair growth, and it’s pretty high up on my list so I wouldn’t deny that this helped my hair growth. However, I’m not sure that I would put it as my utmost top-pick either
3. Shower routine
My third highest-ranked for which hair tip most-affected my hair growth would be my shower routine
By adding these 3 steps to my shower routine, I could literally feel my hair change
By making these three adjustments with every shower you do, you will notice in 3 weeks or less a change in your hair
2. Night cap
The second most top tip that I feel led to more hair growth was wearing a Silk Night Cap each night
A full guide and explanation behind the benefits of wearing a night cap can be seen right here (on my first blog post ever!!)
I could go on and on about night caps, sometimes called “sleep caps,” for hours. I mean it when I tell you that wearing this hair net-looking bonnet that this thing CHANGED my hair
The biggest win that a night cap brings to the table is it prevents breakage
The less breakage you have in your length, the more length left to continue growing!
1. Scalps massager
Unfortunately, I discovered my number one difference-maker with my hair growth way too late
Of all 6 tips, once I started regularly massaging my scalp I really started to notice a difference in my hair growth
I would take this scalp massager and rub the bristles all over my scalp, making sure to hit each area of my head for 10-30 seconds
This, combined with the 5 tips above, will lead you to the most hair growth you can dream of. I sure know it helped mine!
Now, there is one step I did not include in the 6 above….
CONSISTENCY
That’s right, you can’t do each of these tips once or twice and expect results. You must make a concerted effort to do a scalp massage each day, wear a silk night cap each night, shower with the 3 added steps, regular (once a week at least) oil treatments, and take biotin daily. Despite my almost-regular (we all have cheat days, right?) routine, my hair growth over the course of 12 months was only about 4 inches.
Help me decide which hair-growth tips to try next! What tips and tricks do you have for hair growth? Leave your ideas in the comments.
March, 2023. I’ve got a full time job, a boyfriend, and despite my lovely, stable life, I wanted a change. I noticed the bleach in my hair was getting harder and harder to hide that it was from 3 years ago. I basically had a line of bleach from my ears, down. So, I decided to chop it off!
Okay, I didn’t go as sort as the image above. The actual length was just below my ears. However, this was the shortest my hair had ever been, and the first time I had 100% natural, dye & bleach-free hair in 8 years! Then, as the universe tends to have a sense of humor, my boyfriend proposes just 6 months later.
Don’t get me wrong, the last thing on my mind when he got on one knee was my hair. However, as I tried on wedding dresses and looked at hairstyles, I couldn’t help but wish I had kept my long hair. There’s so much more you can do with it! Braids, bubble pony tails, long lucious curls… you get what I mean.
“But Paige, why didn’t you just get hair extensions?”
Because, I had been on an “all-natural” hair journey for about 2 years, and I was not about to give that up. Hair extensions can be SO damaging to your hair, and I wasn’t willing to take that risk. So, my journey for all-natural hair turned into another journey: Hair Growth. And fast!
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3 Rituals I practiced during my showers for FAST hair growth:
Cold Rinse
It’s pretty self-explanatory, once you finish your shower you do either a cool or cold rinse, making sure to get your scalp especially cooled off
The idea behind the cool rinse is that your pores will shrink, and less hair loss will take place
There’s lots of controversy if this tip is legitimate or not, but I choose to stick with it because I noticed a difference in both my hair growth, and hair loss
I know, sounds kind of weird, right? Why would I wash with the same product twice?
That was my mindset when my friend, who has the fastest hair growth of anyone I know by the way…I digress… told me to shampoo my scalp twice. What??
But, she was right! Try it, trust me
The first wash loosens the oils and grime, then you rinse
The next wash actually removes the oil and grime, and you’ll notice that you actually get so many more suds than the first shampoo
Another benefit to shampooing twice is the added scalp massaging that’s going on. It’s proven that scalp massage & bringing blood flow to those follicle’s helps the hair grow. I use this scalp massager made for wet hair
Give your scalp a good massage for 3-4 minutes for each shampoo to get that blood flowing!
That’s right, your hair will never grow longer if your lengths aren’t strong enough to withstand the growth
So, using a good hair mask that prevents breakage is going to be your best bet
My husband and I (yes, he has long-lucious locks. You can check our bridal picture out in the “Contact” page) have tried 10+ different brands of hair masks, and this one takes the cake!
I could tell the difference in my hair health after just ONE time using this stuff
Softness – so-long to the days of tangled hair! Truly, it’s a dream I’ve had since childhood
Shine – in both my husband and I’s hair, there is a noticeable shine that’s taken place after using this hair mask
Strength/Thickness – now, I know the thickness of the strands of your hair is genetic, so maybe my genes allow for more change. However, it’s always worth a shot to try something that may just revolutionize your hair! Right? With the drastic increase in the strength of my hair after using this hair mask with every shower I had, (about twice a week) I couldn’t wait to share it with you
Well, as you can see the steps to fast hair growth are easy as 1, 2, 3 (queue The Jackson 5). Start with a good shampoo, rinse, then shampoo again and rinse. Next, throw that hair mask in. Did you know that you’re supposed to use hair masks AFTER shampooing? I didn’t either! Turns out the natural oils in our hair repel the hair mask if you don’t shampoo first. After letting the mask sit for 5-10 minutes, do a cool rinse and make sure to really soak your scalp to get those follicles nice and closed back up.
Are you tired of dry, greasy, tangled, or overall just crummy hair? Well, you’ve come to the right place! Let me share with you, of the 10+ methods I’ve tried to promote my hair growth and health, what CHANGED my hair the MOST. It’s called… a sleep cap! Or… a night cap! Or… a silk cap! Ok, you get the point. For the sake of this, we are calling it, “a sleep cap.”
What is a sleep cap?
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A sleep cap is a silky-type of material cap worn to protect hair from breakage at night. They tend to look similar to the cap shown in the image below. How did I come across night caps as someone with straight, healthy hair? Well, just like anything now-a-days, TikTok. A video came up of a woman with the most GORGEOUS hair I’ve ever seen!! She was wearing what looked like a hair net you see at fast-food restaurants, but this one was pink and cute! So of course I wanted one!
I immediately went to Amazon and purchased the silkiest sleep cap I could find, and let me tell you, this thing was a game-changer.
What changed?
Little did I know this hair cap would change my hair in just 7 days! I woke up morning after morning wondering how my hair got so soft! And I’m not just talking by touch, but I had strangers complimenting how shiny and silky my hair looked. I used to dream of waking up to hair and not having to style it to go to work. Just a few weeks ago, I forgot to brush my hair!! Dun, dun, dunnnn… Once I realized I ran to my boss, asked her, “how bad is it??” And to my surprise, she said, “I wouldn’t have even been able to guess that you forgot to brush! It looks so smooth!”
So, what did this magical cap have to do with silky, smooth, siren-like hair?
EVERYTHING. The silky material on the inside of the cap reduced friction against my pillowcase, neck, and back. “But Paige, can’t I just get a silk pillowcase?” NO! I tried that for years, and despite both the silky pillowcase and silk sheets, my hair was not protected from my own skin! I’d wake up to tangled hair on the underside, right by my neck and shoulders. Not to mention as my hair grew the ends started to get thinner and split more easily as they rubbed against my shoulders at night. The sleep cap solved all of these issues.
Not to mention on top of preventing friction and breakage, my sleep cap also prevented split ends, hair loss, and thinning. I tell you, I could see my hair strands getting thicker. The natural oils were retained, and all frizz in my hair was LOST! And I’m not kidding, I used to be the kid that woke up and thought she saw a lion in the mirror! I had a frizzy mane! But now, I wake up to the smoothest hair I could ever dream of!
Which styles of hair should use a sleep cap?
The answer is any! All hair types can benefit from wearing a sleeping cap. Straight, wavy, frizzy, coils, etc. Not to mention, wearing a sleeping cap can also maintain hair styles like curls, braids, or blowouts overnight. I recently curled my hair for a Sunday-night concert. (Side rant – who decides to host a concert on a Sunday?? Post Malone you should know better. It’s ok, I still love you). After getting home at midnight-thirty *eek* I had to decide, do I wake up early enough to shower? What do I do if my curls don’t last and I wake up looking not so good? Well, I just decided to throw my hair in the sleep cap, and no matter how many times it still surprises me HOW WELL the sleep cap holds up my hairstyle. I’d dare say my curlers were bouncier (that’s a word?) than before!
Where to purchase?
Sleeping caps can be purchased at many different places, and there’s many different styles to choose from. My favorite is this one from Amazon. You get to decide how tight around your head you want the elastic to be. And, besides the hair benefits of course, it doubles as a sleeping mask! I’m not kidding. I’ve got a super sensitive head, and I struggle to fall asleep with any light whatsoever. So, I tuck my hair into this bad-boy, and pull it over my eyes. I can finally sleep in because this eye-mask/hair protector duo doesn’t fall off in the middle of the night! With my head sensitivity, I actually don’t tie the straps like you’re supposed to, I didn’t like how tight on my head it got and the knot always seemed to work it’s way underneath my neck – not comfortable.
Step-By-Step
Purchase your sleep cap
Throw it in the wash
I personally like to throw anything I get online in the wash before using it
You never know what the item has gone through with warehouse packaging, shipping, etc.
Twist your hair with your hand on top of your head
Wrap the cap around your scalp, make sure all of your hair is tucked inside of the cap
The straps should be near your neck
Take the straps and cross them across the nape of your neck
If you have a sensitive head like mine, you’ll want to just leave the straps alone. I crumple them on one side of my neck so they don’t strangle me…
While keeping the straps as straight as possible, bring them towards the top of your forehead
Tie the straps in a bow, as tight or loose as you like, at the top of your forehead
Voila! Your hair will be protected overnight, and silky soft by morning!
